He had thought love as a policy made a lot of sense for those who could manage it, and anyone who could manage it belonged in religious life. The rest of us have to struggle with more ordinary love, the common or garden variety: love as a crippling condition. Love as a syndrome. Gregory Maguire
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"Love as a policy" is a nice way of saying "love as a state of being." The speaker is saying that love should be respected as an inner state, just like religion. If you are in love, you are supposed to cherish the feeling and treat it with reverence. Once upon a time, people used to be very religious. Love was treated with respect, and love was also treated with fear.

There were rules about what you could do in love, and there were rules about what you could not do. Restrictions were put on how you could treat your lover, because if you treated them disrespectfully, you would lose your chance at happiness. I’m sure most people today don’t want to live under those kinds of rules anymore.

Source: The Next Queen Of Heaven

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